Parenting is one of the most important jobs a person can ever have. To raise a child, one of the next generation to become stewards of the world, is a tremendous responsibility.
We often discuss educating children for academic purposes and making them adept at different skills, but what about teaching kids the importance of being good to one another and to the earth? In today’s highly technological world, it sometimes feels like we are forgetting the human element – the part that binds us together. Maybe in light of all the technology, teaching children how to be kinder should have greater emphasis. Teaching generosity has become an increasingly important and more widely discussed topic among parents and educators, particularly around the holidays. Just like many things in life, the process of learning generosity has depth and breadth that goes beyond textbook lessons. The real classroom of generosity is ultimately in the home. Children model their parents. To raise good human beings, you must be a good human being, according to a recent blog from the Center For Parenting Education. Do you want your kids to learn the concept of sharing? Teach them that sharing is important and encourage them to share toys or break a piece of cake into smaller pieces so their friend can have some. These little lessons learned early can help mold a child into a generous adult. Also, effectively raising a kind hearted child means some introspection is needed. Kids model what they see, what they experience in their homes. Do they see you helping neighbors? Do you show the same kindness to others that you would like to see in your child? Do you donate to charity or go through your closets to find items to take to the local thrift store? Encouraging your child to participate in these activities with you will certainly make an impression. “Often your children are unaware when you write checks for charity or they do not see you when you run an errand for an infirm neighbor or cook a double batch of dinner for a struggling family. Let them know when you perform acts of kindness,” according to the blog. Take a moment after a volunteer effort or donating to explain to your child how you feel from helping others. Does a generous act make you feel kind? Helpful? Good? Tell your child. Create opportunities for your children to help others and praise them for their hard work. Encouragement goes a long way in helping to mold young minds. My family motto is to give back more than you take in every way. Through kindness, sharing and through every contribution you make in all aspects of your life. Comments are closed.
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AuthorDr. Angela Carol MD,CCFP,FCFP is a family physician focused on treating chronic illnesses. Archives
May 2022
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